dtr

i hate the dtr.

It is painful, awkward, and emotionally costly. It is also necessary.

The complexities of a person are amazing. The way we grew up, the people we call family, the environment in which we are comfortable, the facets of our personalities, these are the things that make and break relationships.

This is not about chemistry... or compatability... This is about how two people can seemingly have everything in line, and still miss it.

Miss it entirely. Two people that simply grew up in different areas, with opposite family relationships, who are most comfortable in varying environments with complementary, but separate personalities... This is how they do not get together.